Ancient Ruins and Modern Politics

Saturday was another day of of outings - to Baalbek in the east close to the Syrian border and then to Beiteddine, in the central part of the country. The drive to Baalbek took us through the Beqqa Valley, also known as Lebanon's bread basket. Where our excursions the previous day had us driving up and down narrow mountainous roads, the Beqqa Valley is flat and fertile with vineyards, orchards, and farms extending to meet the mountains that form the border between Syria and Lebanon. In fact, parts of the Beqqa Valley are Hezbollah controlled so the yellow flag with the green machine gun on the center and pictures of various Hezbollah leaders were prominent on the streets and buildings. This isn't particular to Hezbollah though-- throughout Lebanon you can tell the political stronghold of one candidate or party by the pictures and flags that adorn the buildings in the villages.

Baalbek is one of the most amazing places I've ever seen. Originally it was built as a temple to Baal in about 2000 BC and was then added on to and converted to a temple to Jupiter by the Romans when they took over. In addition the temple to Jupiter, the largest in the world, there is also a smaller, albeit more intact, temple to Bacchus. It is amazing how much of the structure, especially the temple of Bacchus, is still intact given not only it's age but also that it had to survive through various political conflicts as well as several earthquakes (Baalbek lies on a fault line that runs parallel to the San Andreas fault). We spent well over an hour exploring the ruins, much of the time with our mouths open in amazement, and we could have spent longer there if it hadn't been so hot. Baalbek was known as Heliopolis, the city of the sun, by the Greeks and it was apparent why-- not a good day to forget to put on sun screen, which unfortunately I did so I was a little pink when we left.

After leaving Baalbek we drove back through the valley and up into the mountains again to Beiteddine. Meaning "house of religion" in Arabic, Beiteddine is a Druze stronghold (Druze is an esoteric, gnostic sect of Islam) and the highlight of Beiteddine is the palace, built in the late 1700s and early 1800s by a local emir who used the palace as his residence until it was taken over first by the Ottoman government and then later by the French. Today the president of Lebanon holds summer meetings in the palace and, like Baalbek, it's also home to a big music and arts festival which had just ended so they were disassembling the bleachers in the courtyard when we visited.

Today the Ayoob clan is off to the village to visit relatives. I was going to go along but the combination of too much sun yesterday and too little sleep the past few nights led to a migraine this morning so instead I am going to spend a lazy afternoon reading-- perhaps walking over to the pool at the Phoenician (the drawback to the Vendome is that being a boutique hotel there isn't a pool but as it's part of the Intercontinental group we can use the pool at their other hotel, which is just a few blocks away). Not sure what the plan for tomorrow during the day is . . . we leave for Berlin late tomorrow night so most likely my next post will be from Germany so as they say over there . . . bis spater!

It's Not the Heat, It's the Humidity aka Welcome to Beirut

Despite growing up in DC I don't think I truly appreciated that statement until this evening. Although we spent the day outside of Beirut in the north of Lebanon (more on that to come), tonight we decided to head to the downtown area, wander a bit and have gelatto. Despite being 20 degrees cooler than it was in Damascus and being night so there was no sun, the humidity makes it feel almost 10 degrees warmer so by the time we wrangled our ways through the traffic and dark, narrow sidewalks we were drenched. In a few minutes I'll take a shower and climb into bed . . . a bed upon which, as I noticed this evening, is the "extra pillow" housekeeping brought me last night that has a monogrammed pillow case. I didn't pay any attention to it at the time the woman dropped it off -- thought it was weird they were bringing me an extra pillow when I already have 4 on the bed-- but tonight I looked at it and realized the initials on the monogram aren't HV (Hotel Vendome) or even IC (Intercontinental, part of the family of hotels to which the Vendome belongs). Nope-- the intials on the pillow case are TS, which begs the question, do they have premade pillow cases with all the possible combinations of first and last initials or do they make them up each time a guest checks in to this particular room (because neither Eddie nor his mother have the monogrammed pillow-- just me).

But enough about my hotel room (which I adore-- not just for that pillow and the four others but also because it's the shades of robin's egg blue and gold I love) and on to what we did today. As I mentioned yesterday, our first order of business today was meeting the patriarch of the Maronite Catholic Church at his summer residence in Dimane, the mountainous northern region of Lebanon. The drive up was beautiful, at first along the coast and then climbing up into the hills. There were about 15 of us at the meeting with the patriarch. We gathered in a room in the residence and were served strong coffee out of tiny cups before His Holiness came in to the room and greeted each person and then took a seat at the center of the semi-circle of chairs and chatted with a few of the guests while many of us were busy taking pictures. The meeting lasted about 10 or 15 minutes, after which we lingered a bit in the residence before heading off across to the other side of the mountain to the home and church of St. Charbel, a 19th century Lebanese monk who followed the example of the desert mothers and fathers and lived as a hermit in a cave for the last 25 years of his life. Evidently he's a big deal in Lebanon as his picture is all over the place

Our next stop was across the mountain from St. Charbel's, the Khalil Gibran museum in his birthplace (and final resting place) of Bsharri. The museum is built into a rocky hill and was pretty interesting. In addition to being a writer, he was also a painter (although as Dr. Ayoob said, he was a much better poet than painter) so the museum mainly is a venue to display his artwork and some artifacts relating to his life.

We left the museum and headed for the Cedars of Lebanon. Used for everything from mummification in Egypt to the building of Solomon's temple in Israel, the cedars were famous in the ancient world and a lone cedar is the central symbol of the Lebanese flag. What I didn't realize is that there are actually hardly any cedars left. Centuries of deforestation by the Phoenicians, Egyptians, Israelites, Romans, Greeks, Persians, Babylonians, etc. have left very few of the trees remaining. It was sad to look out over the bare hills and realize that at one time they would have been covered with trees for as far as your eyes could see. What few trees are left are protected so we stopped to wander through one of the old groves. The smell was wonderful and in one area, there's a tree that died in 1985 and rather than cut it down, it was stripped and an artist spent 15 years carving various images of Christ into the trees, including one image of the crucifixion with Jesus at the top of the tree hanging on the cross and Mary Magdalene carved below towards the bottom of the tree.

After the Cedars we stopped for lunch at a restaurant overlooking the valley and then drove to the monastery of St. Anthony in Qozhaya. St. Anthony is THE father of all the desert mothers and fathers of the fourth century and the oral tradition states that he came to Lebanon and stayed with his disciples in the cave at Qozhaya. The cave is now a chapel and the monastery is built into the hill-- quite a spectacle to see and even more of a spectacle to reach as we wound down winding, narrow roads to reach it. Not only does the monastery feature the dramatic location, it also houses the oldest printing press in the Arab world that is credited with saving the language from extinction when the area was ruled by the Turks.

Well, it is well past my bedtime here and I realize I haven't been that eloquent in my blog posting tonight so I hope the pictures do justice to what I'm feeling too tired to describe . . .

Sights, smells, sounds and oh so many cars in Syria

Well, it's been less than a week since I landed in Syria and what an eventful four days it's been! I was excited about my journey here because I suspected, and rightly so, that Syria would be the most “exotic” place I've visited in all my travels and I was correct. So what do I mean by exotic? Not only is it the sights (Bedouin fires in the desert seen from the plane) and sounds (Arabic being spoken all around) and smells (sheesha available on every street corner) but also the fact that here there is no mistaking that I am outside the culture. I've been taken for a native all over the British Isles and in various other countries, including Italy and Poland, but that will never happen in Syria and I'm finding it interesting to think about how my obvious identity as an American tourist is affecting the way I am experiencing the country. I usually try so hard not to appear too “touristy” but here, even just walking down to the lobby of the hotel it's apparent so I cut myself some slack and enjoyed playing tourist.

Damascus is reported to be the oldest continually inhabited city and boy is it crowded! It's almost like all those people who have inhabited it for the past few thousand years are still around-- most of them driving or running across the street like a human game of Frogger. The traffic is unbelievable and will just get worse until the end of the week when Ramadan begins. There are no lane markings which is good as lanes of traffic seem to be just some vague notion. Horns are used for communication. Speed limits are non existent, tailgating and cutting people off is common, and it appears that in traffic circles the traffic in the circle tends to yield to the traffic joining the circle . . . at least some of the time.

Fortunately we had wonderful people-- cousins of one of Eddie's clients-- take us around. Eddie, Fehraz and Gassan met me at the airport when I arrived Sunday evening and we came back to the hotel where I took a nice bath and collapsed into bed. Eddie's brother, Sal, arrived a couple hours after I did so Monday morning the three of us met up for breakfast and then were picked up by Gassan and Fehraz and taken to the old part of Damascus where we wandered the streets before meeting up with Ronza, Fehraz's cousin who lived in LA for a couple years when she was a teenager and therefore speaks great English. Fehraz gets by in English and Sal speaks a little Arabic so communication was ok before Ronza arrived but she was able to translate Fehraz's knowledge of the history of places and tell us what we were seeing and experiencing.

Our first stop was the Umayyad mosque, the third most important mosque in Islam outside of the mosques in Medina and Mecca. The story is that the prophet Mohamed stopped outside of Damascus on his travels and saw the city from the hill and said he didn't want to enter it as he knew he could only enter paradise once. The image of Damascus as paradise is portrayed in mosaics on the inside wall of the mosque courtyard. I had to get a special coat/dress thing to wear before going into the mosque, which given that it was probably already over 100 degrees was quite an experience but well worth it to be able to go into the mosque and walk around. The mosque was built on the remains of a pagan temple and the remains of the gate to the old temple can be seen outside the newer entrance. There was also a church on the site and when the Muslims took over the area, they allowed the Christians to continue to worship in part of the courtyard for almost a century. In fact, the main part of the prayer hall contains a shrine dedicated to John the Baptist as his head was purported to be discovered buried there. So now I've seen the shrine where his head is and his index finger (in Florence) so I only have a few hundred body parts left to go.

We were at the mosque during the time of the mid-day prayer so as we walked around the courtyard we could hear the prayers coming from inside. The mosque also has the shrine of Hussein, the prophet's grandson, so it's a pilgrimage site for the Shi'ite so we saw some pilgrims there from Iran. The shrine of Saladin is also right outside the mosque gates but as I'd already returned my “special clothes” I couldn't go in and see the tomb itself.

After leaving the mosque we walked through the famous old souk or market area where in one part the tin roof is speckled with holes left by celebratory gun shots in the early 20th century making for an interesting lighting effect as you walk through. Though we didn't do any shopping Monday morning, we did stop for some of the famous vanilla ice cream covered with sliced pistachios that the souk is famous for and it was very sweet but very delicious. After walking around the citadel, which was closed for construction, we then got back in the van and headed to pick up Ossama, another cousin, and Sandrella, Fehraz's wife. We all then went to Seidnaya in the hills outside Syria. Famous for a picture of Mary supposedly painted by St. Paul (there were so many pictures of Mary in it that I'm not sure which one it was though), the church was built to honor Mary the Mother of Jesus because a gazelle said to do it. Obviously there's more to the story than that but I can't remember the details at this point. Suffice to say, it's a beautiful and holy place that also now houses a convent and the sanctuary of the church is filled with more crystal chandeliers than Liberace could have ever dreamed of—I've never seen anything like that.

After leaving the church, we, unlike the prophet, are obviously able to enter paradise more than once because we were taken to what Fehraz and Ossama said was the most famous restaurant in all of Syria called, of course, Paradise. And indeed it was. From the gardens and fountains as you enter to the misters that kept the outdoor seating area cool, to the endless variety of food that was continually brought to the table, it was heavenly. We started our meal with beverages and little dishes of nuts-- the best almonds I've ever had along with two types of pistachios. That was followed by dishes of various green salads, tabbouleh, creamy hummus, great smoky babba ganoush, olives, pickles, a big bowl of cherry tomatoes, warm puffy pita bread, this delicious dish that's a cross between yogurt and cheese-- all wonderful and all stuff from which I could happily make an entire meal. And then came the kibbeh and the pastry with the cheese inside and the little sausages and the skewers of meat and grilled vegetables. I had said that on this trip I would consider eating meat and poultry, especially if it was in a circumstance where it would be rude not to accept someone's hospitality and this was definitely one of those cases . . . and it was delicious, especially the grilled chunks of chicken in this yogurty buttery sauce. Yumaroo. All this was followed by what was probably my favorite part of the meal-- huge platters of fruit for dessert-- a big dish of grapes, a platter of dark, dusky plums, a small plate of cactus fruit, which are similar in texture to a pomegranate but taste completely different, peaches, pears, apples, watermelon, and then small bites of Turkish delight and some sugary pistachio-y concoction.
After dinner we were deposited back at the hotel-- very full but also very worn out after a long, hot day so we retired to our respective rooms and I rejuvenated by taking an hour long bubble bath which is my idea of paradise.

Tuesday morning were were met again by Gassan and Ossama and we headed for Krak de Chevalier, an old crusader castle and according to people like Mark Twain and the travel writer Paul Theroux, one of the best castles in the world. It was an amazing place. The original outer tower pre-dated the crusades but after the Christian knights (Templars and Hospitalers) took it over they extended the outer walls and then built an amazing defensive fortress inside the original walls. We had a tour guide who led us around and told us about the history of the place as we took picture after pictures of things like the armory, the stables, the dining room, the bread oven, and even the loos.

After Krak de Chevlaier we drove back towards Damascus to stop in Maalula, which is a Christian Aramaic speaking town in the hills. There are several old churches, monasteries and convents in the town and we visited two-- the convent and shrine of St. Thekla, and the monastery of St. Sergius. While the shrine of Thekla was pretty cool, the church at St. Sergius was the most amazing church I've ever been in. It dates back to the early fourth century and they have the oldest Christian altar there pre-dating the council of Nicea. Instead of a flat table, as decreed at Nicea, it's shaped like a pagan altar with raised sides. In pagan temples the sides were raised to catch the blood from the sacrifices and then there would have been a hole in the middle through which it drained although since Jesus was the sacrificial lamb the altar didn't have the hole in the middle. There was a lovely guide there who grew up speaking Aramaic and gave us an example of what is sounds like by reciting the Lord's prayer in its original language-- that was an amazing thing to hear. If my camera battery hadn't been dead I would have asked her if I could have recorded that-- it gave me chills. There were also some interesting icons in the church, painted by a famous Greek iconographer from the 18th century, including one of John the Baptist looking very relaxed with his legs crossed because his work to proclaim and baptize Jesus was done (guess he didn't see the whole Salome and off with his head thing coming). After buying a few post cards we headed back to Damascus, stopping in the new city to have schwarma at this little hole in the wall place that had great food but no power when we first arrived. Evidently in parts of the city the power supply is spotty at best and can go out suddenly. About ten minutes after we arrived the power came on in the schwarma shop where we were eating but went off at the place next door.

Our final full day in Damascus was spent seeing a few more sites in the old city and doing lots of shopping. Eddie and I got up early and took a walk to the museum a block away from the hotel. We were just going to look at the outside but they have a huge garden area filled with artifacts - pieces of Corinthian columns, mosaics, sculputre, etc. so we got tickets and walked around for a bit before heading back to meet Gassan, our faithful driver, and Fehraz who was our escort for the day. Before shopping Fehraz took us to an old building that had been a market place and sleeping quarters for merchants that's now used as a place for special events and then we spent some time wandering around Azem palace, and 18th century dwelling that was the private residence of the governor of Damascus. Although not as old as other buildings in the "old" city, it certainly was gorgeous and well worth the visit not only for its beauty but also for the exhibits in the various rooms of the palace where you could learn more about the everyday life of the Syrian elite-- quite luxurious!

After leaving the palace we did a little shopping for spices and trinkets before heading back to the hotel to rest for a while. Fehraz had to go to work for a few hours so we took the opportunity to nap, swim, etc. A quick aside here to give my wholehearted endorsement to sunscreen. While I did get a little bit of color in the UK last month, I'm still pretty pale but with 30 SPF sunscreen I was able to spend 90 minutes in the Syrian sun by the pool without so much as a tinge of pink. It actually wasn't that bad despite the fact the forecast said it would be 101 outside. I alternated sunbathing with swimming laps so it was the perfect way to relax before round two of shopping which included a trip to Fehraz's favorite sweet shop which was incredible. The way the souks are organized in Damascus is that there will be one lane that's all spices, another lane that's all textiles, another that's cookies and candy, etc. The sweet shop we were in was packed so we knew it must be good-- people stocking up for the Iftars, big meals that occur during Ramadan.

With our wallets practically empty and our bags full, we then went up Jebel Qaissioun, the rocky mount that was my view from my hotel window. From there we, along with probably a quarter of the 6 million other people in Damascus, took in the nighttime view of the city below at night. There were tons of cars lining the lane and people sitting and having picnics, enjoying the view. It was like a circus with fluorescent toys and cotton candy vendors and even a neon outlined little train ride. We opted for the adult activity of going to a restaurant and having tea while looking at the view. Tea, however, wasn't going to cut it for dinner for the men so we went to Fehraz's favorite place for one of his favorite dishes, ful, a fava bean salad that can be eaten plain or with yogurt. I opted for with yogurt because of my love for the Mediterranean type of yogurt (I've been in heaven here with all the fruit, plate of crudite that are brought with meals and of course, the yogurt). The cafe was yet another hole in the wall place or actually a better description would be hole under the overpass as it was on a corner of a busy street with an even busier street above. The tables were set up on an expanse of sidewalk and cement by the street and under the overpass. It was awesome and a perfect way to end our time in Syria.

Today we did the drive from Damascus to Beirut. The border crossing was uneventful, which was a good thing. The only snag was that despite what Eddie's travel book said, we had to pay an exit tax. Our driver didn't even realize this so we got up to the window at the Syrian departure area and were sent back for not having the correct paperwork. It was a little snag though and only held us up about 15 minutes. It was amazing how when we crossed into Lebanon the landscape changed-- suddenly there were trees and more greenery and even the buildings look different-- more of the European influence. Our hotel is a block away from the Mediterranean and is gorgeous. Tomorrow will be the first full day in Lebanon and evidently there is a lot planned so I'd better get to bed as I have to be up early to go meet the patriarch of the Maronite Catholic church, which will be our first stop. What does one wear to meet a patriarch I wonder? We'll find out tomorrow, for now, time for bed.

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Look at all these shoes!

It's 7:30 am on Tuesday morning and as I type this I have most of my luggage unpacked, one load of clothes in the wash, and I'm overwhelmed by the outfits, and especially shoes, from which I have to chose after showering this morning. There's something to be said for living out of one, what I've now been told is not large but rather medium sized, suitcase for 4 weeks. Getting dressed is a much quicker proposal.

The weekend in London was great despite it's miserable beginnings. Shortly after the drive to London began I developed what was probably the worst migraine in my entire life. I unfortunately missed all the scenery on the way into the city and it wasn't until we were approaching our hotel that I could even open my eyes. Our suite wasn't quite ready when we reached The Soho Hotel (located in, of course, Soho) so I sat at the bar with sunglasses on and had a Coke (one of my migraine relief medications of choice) while the boys went off to meet a friend who lives in London for lunch. Fortunately by the time I was through with my drink the room was ready so I was showed upstairs to our suite, which was awesome but I didn't really take time to look at it then as all I wanted to do was shut the drapes, climb into bed, put a pillow over my head, and sleep for a bit, which blissfully I was able to do.

Fortunately I was feeling better by the evening because I would have hated to miss dinner at the Cinnamon Club. As I mentioned in my last post, it's an Indian restaurant set in the old Westminster Public Library building. Unfortunately there was a private party going on in the room that still has the books but the main dining room was quite nice as well and the food was out of this world. I highly recommend it for anyone venturing to London who wants a nice, fairly upscale dining experience. After dinner we went back to the bar at the Soho and had a couple drinks before hitting the sack.

Sunday we woke up to a glorious sunny day which dictated our plans. Since it was so nice outside, we walked to Waterloo Station where we took the train out to Hampton Court, Henry VIII's palace (and later, William and Mary's palace). The palace sits about 10 miles or so from central London on the banks of the Thames and, in addition to the palace buildings themselves, has huge gardens, part of which are open to the public without having to pay an admission fee. Needless to say, there were a lot of people taking advantage of the glorious weather and hanging out in the sun. We went through the palace (yet another recommendation if you're in London and go to Hampton Court - skip the audio guide - while the one at Holyrood was fabulous and easy to use, the one at Hampton Court was confusing, difficult to follow and not all that informative). One of the most interesting things they've done to reinterpret history, at least in my opinion, is in the banquet hall they have long tables set up with table clothes into which facts about royal dinners during the time of the Tudors have been embroidered-- tidbits such as the average courtier would have eaten between 4000 - 5000 calories per day, of course much of that was probably consumed in the form of beer and wine, the beverages of choice. And meat-- they ate tons of meat and little, if any, vegetables and fruit. I would have been screwed-- drunk, but screwed.

We wandered around the palace for a bit before deciding we needed some Tudor inspired food from the cafe. Ok, so it was just sandwiches and crisps and chips but still, it was nice to sit in the sun and refuel before we attempted-- and quite successfully-- to make it through the Hampton Court hedge maze. On our way out it was approaching closing time so we decided to go back and see how long the line for the special exhibit on Henry's women was. It is the 500th anniversary of his succession to the throne and Hampton Court had put together a special exhibit with portraits and memorabilia relating to all his wives. When we earlier went by the room where it was housed the wait was over an hour so we skipped it but later in the afternoon it was about half that long so we decided to see it. Again, while it was interesting, HC has a lot to learn about museum design and presentation. Everything was in one cramped room with only one entrance/exit so people were cycling through very slowly. There was definitely a better way to set it up but it was still interesting to see all the wives together and read about how/why each was chosen and what their fate was (divorced, beheaded, died, divorced, beheaded, survived).

Sunday night we had yet another great meal in London, this time at a Lebanese restaurant overlooking The Green Park. Monday morning we had a bit of time to kill before our car to the airport picked us up at 1:30 so we headed over to the Royal Academy to see the John William Waterhouse pre-Raphaelite exhibit, followed by a far to quick foray into Fortnum and Masons where I could have easily spent an entire day rather than just 30 minutes. And I was rather proud of myself for exercising extreme restrain and only purchasing one tin of tea for myself-- a smokey Earl Grey which I will try shortly. As I told Daniel, there has only been one other time in my life that I've wanted to be filthy stinking rich-- when looking in the windows of the Fred Leighton store in the Bellagio in Las Vegas-- but Fortnum and Mason's evoked that same feeling in me. I could have easily dropped a ton of money in there, if I actually had a ton of money that is.

So, now I'm home and have to prepare today for the next adventure, which occurs in less than two weeks. Today it's off to the Syrian embassy to meet Eddie so he can get the visa application process moving. Also more laundry to do, mail to go through, pictures to edit and upload, etc. Ahh the joys of returning home. It was nice to see the family though, and as I mentioned earlier, I'm overwhelmed and overjoyed when I look in my closet.

Now off to make a cup of tea! Next post from Syria in about 10 days time.

Sense and Sensibility

Well, on Wednesday I reluctantly bid farewell to Hawarden and hopped the train for Winchester. I must say, I prefer the Welsh landscape to the English, at least the part of England that particular train ride took me through-- not as inspiring as the lush green fields and hills of Wales.

Winchester, however, is a cute little town and my hotel was right next to the Cathedral. In fact, I could look out my window and see the north side of the church. Evidently Wednesday night is bell ringing practice so I was treated to a concert for about 2 hours. I arrived too late on Wednesday afternoon to actually go into the cathedral so instead I walked around the pedestrian shopping area for a bit before retiring to my room for an early start on Thursday morning.

Daniel and Eddie were picking me up in Winchester on Thursday so I got up early, packed, had breakfast (ahhh-- yogurt and fruit how I'd missed you after the carbs only selection of toast, cereal or porridge at St. Deiniol's) and then went to wander in the cathedral. It's a Norman rather than Gothic cathedral and I must say I think my preference is shifting to that simplicity of architecture. Inside it is quite grand. I only really had time to look around the nave but took note of many of the details-- the medieval floor tiles, the carvings on the pews in some of the side chapels, the corbel carvings, etc. Based on personal experience of watching visitors to Washington National Cathedral for the past almost 8 years, I've noticed many people focus so much on the big, grand and obvious that they miss the small, simple and subtle expressions of iconography but that's what I've found myself focusing on in recent weeks. Hmmm-- have to think about that some more and figure out what lesson there is to be learned there.

After paying homage to Jane Austen's grave, I wandered around the cathedral close until I got the text message that Daniel and Eddie had arrived. We hit up Starbucks to get them caffeinated and then I checked out of the hotel and we got in the car to head towards Petersfield. I did make a brief stop on the way to the car to run into St. Swithun's Chapel, which is a tiny chapel built into the gate that was the original entrance to the grounds of the cathedral close. Winchester Cathedral was originally a Benedictine abbey and the thought is that St. Swithun's was a chapel for the lay workers in the abbey. It was quite lovely-- a place I'd visit often if I lived in Winchester.

On our way to Petersfield, we made a brief stop at another Austen pilgrimage destination, her house and museum in Chawton. There were two places Jane really considered home, the rectory in which she grew up that burned down in the 1820's and the house in Hampshire given to her and Cassandra and her mother by her brother, where she lived for the last 8 years of her life and revised her earlier works and wrote her later novels. The house contains Austen memorabilia, my favorite bit being the little table where she'd write each morning.

From Chawton we headed to Andy and Jo's to pop in and say hello. The bride to be was off getting her nails done when we arrived but the entire family was there. Lucy, Andy and Jo's 19 month old daughter, was toddling around being quite entertaining. In addition to being adorable-- big blue eyes and white blond curls-- she's also incredibly smart and verbal. If you didn't know better, you'd swear she was going on 3 instead of 2.

The wedding party had rehearsal at 3 pm so we hit the road to go check in at our respective inns in Buriton, 2 1/2 miles away. I got settled and was just getting ready for a quick nap when Eddie texted to say their inn was closed until 5:30 so the boys came back and hung out in the pub with me until they could get checked in . . . that should have been a warning sign about how they'd find the Five Bells . . .from the rooms smelling like cigarette smoke to non-working showers, it was just one fiasco after another but unfortunately there wasn't another place for them to stay. They finally were able to nap and then shower in Andy and Nick's (the best man's) room after which we all, in addition to our friend Nicholas who had arrived earlier from London for the wedding, had a dinner that was remarkable for the conversation and unremarkable for the food, also at the Five Bells (note to chefs: risotto isn't just the Italian word for rice-- it's a method of cooking that isn't supposed to resemble Uncle Ben's in any way, shape, or form). Nicholas and I followed up dinner with a drink at the Master Robert, where we were both staying.

We were up by 8:30 am the next morning for breakfast and while Andy and Nick walked down the road to meet us, Daniel and Eddie stayed in bed. They were finally up and moving by 10ish so we piled in the car to head for a nearby National Trust property with the intention of wandering around the gardens and having lunch in their cafe. Unfortunately, it was closed when we arrived as was the other nearby National Trust house we checked out on the web so instead we drove back to Petersfield where we had lunch in a cafe and then had to race back to get ready for the wedding.

The wedding itself was lovely as was the reception. Jo looked gorgeous, Andy was beaming, and everyone was having a wonderful time. I skipped out of the reception about 10ish as I was on people overload and came back and had a nice long bubble bath and read my Marie Claire before climbing into bed. This morning I need to finish packing up and we head to London at some point-- waiting for a PING from the boys. I'm looking forward to dinner tonight at the Cinnamon Club-- an Indian restaurant in an old library-- definitely my type of place!